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2. Isolation
It can by very lonely working in your home office without the
companionship of co-workers. If you are in a service profession, you
may have enough contact with the outside world that you don't
experience this, but if you are a writer, for example, you run the
risk of becoming somewhat of a hermit. Solution: Find a group of
like-minded people i.e. A networking group, book club, circle of
self-employed acquaintances and arrange a monthly get-together for
lunch or coffee. I belong to several women's networking groups and
they are often my sanity break when I am under heavy writing
deadlines. I return to the computer refreshed and re-energized, and
discover that the time I spent networking enabled me to work more
efficiently afterwards. A great investment!
3. Not taking our business seriously
There was a time when a home-based business was not considered
to be quite legitimate. The explosion in the number of people going
home to work has gone a long way in changing public perception, but
we have to take ourselves as seriously as we expect others to. If we
spend time chatting on the phone with friends, or running into the
store in sweat pants, we can't be surprised if people don't treat us
as professionals and feel free to "drop in for coffee" or
stop in the mall for a chat. Solution: What a revelation the first
time I told someone I was not available to chat because I was at
work. I felt such freedom. Certainly that person would not have
called me at the office to chat, so I felt free to treat my home
office with the same respect. I have since found people to be very
respectful of my need to focus, and understanding that I am not
available for social visits during office hours. We need to dress
and act like professionals if we expect to be treated as such. (Yes,
I have stopped wearing track pants shopping after running into the
local newscaster and being interviewed ON TELEVISION while at the
grocery store last week wearing leggings, a long fleece jacket and
NO MAKEUP!…… Don't let it happen to you!)
4. Work = home and Home = work
When you work at home, the lines of separation between work and
home get quite blurred. As convenient as this can be with no
commuting time, it can also become all to easy to "slip into
the office" for a few minutes after dinner, only to discover
that the evening has disappeared and the family has had no time with
you. Solution: Keep a notebook labeled "home" in your
office, and one labeled "office" in your home area. Set
your office hours and really leave your work behind when you leave.
Close the door, and find an alternate activity to help you make the
transition from work to home. If you remember something work-related
that you need to attend to, WRITE IT DOWN, so that you don't have to
worry about it. Alternately, when you go in to work, focus on work
and if you think of something you need to do in the house, write it
down in its corresponding notebook. When you leave your office area,
put your answering machine on and turn the ringer off, so that you
won't hear the phone ringing.
5. Burnout
People who are employed often envy the entrepreneur for our
ability to take time off whenever we choose (theoretically). Reality
is, we often work long hard hours when we have a lot of work, and
spend long, hard hours looking for clients when work is slow. It
seems to be feast or famine in many fields. Solution: Learn to set
money aside when times are good, so that you don't feel quite so
pressured when times are leaner. Insist on at least one rest day a
week. Our bodies were NOT designed to work 24/7, taking a day off is
an investment in good health, something particularly crucial to the
self-employed. Relaxation is NOT a waste of time. (To my friends
reading this, I do believe in taking my own advice and am working
really hard to learn how to relax….)
6. Distractions
There are many advantages to working at home, especially if you
have a family. However, the same family that you love enough to want
to be close to, can make it difficult to concentrate at times.
(Ironically, I am writing this as my 10 year old is asking me to
explain the rules of "Dutch Blitz".) Children, friends
dropping in, the television, the refrigerator etc. are all
distractions that need to be dealt with. Solutions: If possible,
have your home office space away from the central hub of the home.
If this is not possible, set a timer for your work period, and
insist that your family leave you alone for that time, with the
understanding that you will give them your full attention when the
timer goes. With little children, your work periods may have to be
short and frequent, but as they get older you can increase the time.
Set the VCR to tape your favorite programs so that you can enjoy
them guilt-free on your time off (you can skip the commercials that
way and watch them in 75% of the time too!)
7. Perfectionism
Did you know that procrastinators are often perfectionists? We
keep waiting for the "perfect" quiet time to sit down and
concentrate and until it comes, we keep busy with smaller tasks. We
also often keep editing and revising our work until it is perfect (a
rare achievement, to be sure). This "all or nothing" cycle
can be broken by accepting the fact that success does not mean being
perfect, it means never giving up. So we do our best in the time
allowed and then move on. Ask your closest friends and family
whether or not they feel perfectionism is something that holds you
back. Those of us in research-related fields know that we are never
finished, there are always more books and articles to read and
people to interview. As the saying goes "A job worth doing is
worth doing well" but it DOESN'T say "a job worth doing
needs to be done perfectly or not at all".
8. Getting in a professional rut
As a former teacher, I used to love professional development
days. I always came back to the classroom inspired and motivated to
make some improvements. We ALL need professional development days!
Join a professional association, indulge in a trip to the bookstore
to keep up with the newest developments in your field, take a
self-improvement course in an area related to your field etc. We
need to guard against becoming stale!
9. Saying "yes" to too many obligations
How many times have you heard "I'm sure you won't mind if I
just drop over since you're at home anyway." Solution: This
relates to number 3 above with regards to taking our business
seriously. I have learned to say no to outside obligations like
babysitting, committee meetings, school field trips etc. because I
have to work. The fact that I set my own hours means that my work is
FLEXIBLE, but not OPTIONAL. We each need to choose the things we
want to be involved with, and feel NO GUILT in saying no to the
rest! Say "no" to the good things, so that you have room
to say "yes" to the best!
10. Taking yourself too seriously
Having said above that we need to take our business seriously, I
want to stress that I don't mean to take ourselves too seriously (If
I did, I WOULD NOT have confessed my little grocery store interview
last week). Keep your sense of humor and you will keep your sanity.
Learn to laugh at your blunders and enjoy life! After all, you are
the best boss you will ever have, so learn to enjoy your own
company!
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